The Obtainer - 12/3/25, Wednesday

Cory Ohlendorf
December 03, 2025

Moms carry a lot, so this year give her something that carries weight. Our guide balances practical upgrades with indulgent treats she’ll truly enjoy.

- Cory Ohlendorf, Editor in Chief ⋯ @coryohlendorf

Smart Picks (and Splurges) for Every Kind of Mom

Finding the right gift for the mom in your life shouldn’t feel like a stress test. Whether you’re shopping for your own mother or the mother of your children, the goal is simple—show her you see everything she does. That’s why this year’s guide balances practical, everyday upgrades she’ll actually use with a few luxurious splurges worthy of her status. From small comforts to big-deal indulgences, these picks make it easy to deliver a little gratitude wrapped in something genuinely great.

Our Picks

For the mom that takes her showers and haircare seriously.

Microfiber hair towel,
$59 by Crown Affair

Available in multiple shades and can be customized with her initials.

Kress micro crossbody bag,
$210 by Leatherology

You can’t give her a Birkin, but she’ll love this luxurious and delicate French perfume.

Un Jardin sur le Nil
Eau de toilette gift set,
$176 by Hermes

This smart frame can be updated with new photos from your phone and has a carved stone texture.

Stone digital frame,
$209 by Aura

You can never go wrong with cashmere, right?

Cropped cashmere cocoon cardigan,
$445 by Jenni Kayne

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What MR PORTER’s
Style Experts Are
Gifting This Year

The MR PORTER crew knows a thing or two about good taste. They spend their days surrounded by what’s new, what’s refined and what’s worth your hard-earned money—so naturally, they also know how to give a great gift. We asked the team what they’ll be wrapping up (and hoping to find for themselves) this holiday season. Their picks run from a fashion-insider sweater polo and classic shoes to timeless cashmere and leather accessories—gifts any guy would be glad to crack open. And as always, everything arrives with the retailer’s standout service, free shipping and returns, plus that signature, black and white packaging.


Brunello Cucinelli cashmere ribbed sweater, $1,350	Transparent Speaker aluminum and glass speaker system, $1,100

Mr P. Olie leather monk-strap shoe, $425

Loro Piana Bale extra-large leather tote bag, $4,325	Burberry Fringed checked cashmere scarf, $545

424 Cropped leather jacket, $2,050

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It’s never too much of a good thing when it comes to luxury candles. Byredo's Bibliothèque candle ($165) captures that hushed, leather-bound world where time stands still and every corner smells like inherited wealth. Notes of peach and plum soften the edges of rich patchouli, leather, and vanilla, creating an aroma that's less "scented candle" and more “warm, mahogany-paneled library”. And now it comes in this 400-gram jar that stretches tall, making an impact on any table top.

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The sales and discounts our team is currently watching.

Quay’s Cyber Monday sale is still live for the next 24 hours. Take advantage and grab some winter-ready shades for half off. ~~$125~~ / $62.50 by Quay	A fresh take on the season's polo cardigans, Banana Republic crafted this one using a ribbed-knit stitch and a super-soft, bouclé-like yarn. ~~$160~~ / $80 by Banana Republic	The only bad thing about big coffee table books? The price. So pick up this classic Ralph Lauren reference book for an unbelievable bargain. ~~$75~~ / $35.70 by Rizzoli
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